"Get out of your head.
stay in your heart."

Intimacy Healer
Tantrico
Spiritual teacher
empathic creative
Pleiadian Lightworker

Welcome
My name is John Pisano-Thomsen, also known in many spiritual circles as "DaddyGuru."  along with CasaKama.Life, this is your LGBTQ+ / straight-friendly website for exploring the depths of spirituality, intimacy healing, and lightwork. Dive into the transformative world of Tantra and discover unique pathways to personal enlightenment.

My mission is to guide you through your journey of spiritual growth and connection, offering expert insights and profound practices that resonate with your soul. Embrace the journey to a deeper understanding and harmony with the universe at TheDaddyGuru.com

One-on-One Personal Tantra Programs

Your specialized, clothing optional, personal program (based on a consultation with DaddyG) is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. Be aware that this personal retreat does NOT facilitate fellatio or sexual penetration. The focus will be is geared toward touch, intimacy, sensuality connection, and awakening your Kundalini energy. Students who want to take their energies to the level of physical sex can do this outside of classroom hours and in their rooms.

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Intimacy & Trauma Healing

Intimacy healing therapy helps you reach your potential related to connection, closeness, healthy vulnerability, pleasure and reduces emotional, physical or psychological barriers relating to self-love and quality intimacy with others. Much of this is caused by unreleased childhood trauma which blocks the "kunda" (your innate feminine). Intimacy therapy can also include sex therapy and expands beyond traditional talk therapy using somatic, kundalini awakening techniques. Most psychology and social work graduate programs do not address sexuality in their curriculum and if they do it is minimal.

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Tantra Massages

Tantric massage is a massage technique that involves your full body — including your intimate areas. The goal is to awaken your sexual energy, deepen the intimacy between you and your partner, and increase mindfulness of sexual pleasure and your body. Tantra massage gives you the possibility to go deep into yourself, discover the source of your inner strength and power. Clients have a choice of having a regular two-hand massage or four-hand massage.

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  •  01/09/2025 04:00 PM - 06/09/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Ruta de los Cenotes Km 17, Puerto Morelos, Riviera Maya, Mexico

DaddyGuru has teamed up with Lunita Jungle Retreat to offer a unique and one-of-a-kind tantra + magic mushroom holistic experience that will open and expose you to your innate feminine (Shakti / Yin) AND your innate masculine (Shiva / Yang). Your Shakti houses your sexual + creative energy while your Shiva houses your awareness. By DaddyGuru and Lunita integrating their two practices, we now offer a way for students to experience and understand both the power of their innate feminine (energy) and the power of their innate masculine (awareness). 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL JULY 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  01/08/2024 12:00 AM - 26/08/2024 11:59 PM
  • Online Event

This six-week course will guide students through a journey of deep examination into our emotional triggers and traumas so that they can be reunited with their inner child and release the absorbed childhood densities back to the Multiverse. Every human is a perfectly imperfect being who has suffered some level of childhood trauma -- usually from the family unit, but also from schools and other societal organizations. The goal of this course is to learn to be the observer, to embrace everything shadow and light in your life, and to let go of the trauma-based beliefs that hold you back . At the completion of this course, you will be able to reunite with your inner child, recognize and revere your authenticity, and to lovingly, and proudly embrace everything you have experienced and everything you are. Namaste. Week 1: Enough is Enough: Knowing A Change Is Needed Week 2: Who Am I, Really? Week 3: Disconnecting to Reconnect Week 4: Taking Action Week 5: Retraining Your Inner Narratives Week 6: Making Time for Your Inner Child For further details, please send your inquiry to theDaddyGuru@outlook.com.

  •  01/07/2025 04:00 PM - 06/07/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Quepos, Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

Casa Kama and DaddyGuru have teamed up to offer a unique and one-of-a-kind tantra + magic mushroom holistic experience that will open and expose you to your innate feminine (Shakti / Yin) AND your innate masculine (Shiva / Yang). Your Shakti houses your sexual + creative energy while your Shiva houses your awareness. By integrating their two practices, we now offer a way for students to experience and understand both the power of their innate feminine (energy) and the power of their innate masculine (awareness). 50% OFF WHEN USING CODE HAPPY50 IN CELEBRATION OF ROBERT'S 50TH BIRTHDAY.

  •  01/08/2025 04:00 PM - 04/08/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 50% OFF WITH CODE HAPPY50 IN CELEBRATION OF ROBERRT'S 50TH BIRTHDAY.

  •  10/10/2025 04:00 PM - 13/10/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL AUGUST 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  09/11/2025 04:00 PM - 14/11/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Quepos, Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

Casa Kama and DaddyGuru have teamed up to offer a unique and one-of-a-kind tantra + magic mushroom holistic experience that will open and expose you to your innate feminine (Shakti / Yin) AND your innate masculine (Shiva / Yang). Your Shakti houses your sexual + creative energy while your Shiva houses your awareness. By integrating their two practices, we now offer a way for students to experience and understand both the power of their innate feminine (energy) and the power of their innate masculine (awareness). 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL SEPT 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  12/12/2025 04:00 PM - 15/12/2025 12:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL OCT 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  09/01/2026 04:00 PM - 12/01/2026 04:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL NOVEMBER 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  09/01/2026 04:00 PM - 12/01/2026 04:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL JANUARY 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  12/02/2026 04:00 PM - 17/02/2026 04:00 PM
  •   Quepos, Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

Casa Kama and DaddyGuru have teamed up to offer a unique and one-of-a-kind tantra + magic mushroom holistic experience that will open and expose you to your innate feminine (Shakti / Yin) AND your innate masculine (Shiva / Yang). Your Shakti houses your sexual + creative energy while your Shiva houses your awareness. By integrating their two practices, we now offer a way for students to experience and understand both the power of their innate feminine (energy) and the power of their innate masculine (awareness). 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL DECEMBER 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  01/04/2026 04:00 PM - 06/04/2026 04:00 PM
  •   Quepos, Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

Casa Kama and DaddyGuru have teamed up to offer a unique and one-of-a-kind tantra + magic mushroom holistic experience that will open and expose you to your innate feminine (Shakti / Yin) AND your innate masculine (Shiva / Yang). Your Shakti houses your sexual + creative energy while your Shiva houses your awareness. By integrating their two practices, we now offer a way for students to experience and understand both the power of their innate feminine (energy) and the power of their innate masculine (awareness). 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL FEBRUARY 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  29/05/2026 04:00 PM - 01/06/2026 04:00 PM
  •   Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

"Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you. This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life. 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT TILL MARCH 1. USE CODE EARLYBIRD. 20% DE DESCUENTO DISPONIBLE PARA TODOS LOS RESIDENTES CENTROAMERICANOS, USE CODO CENTROAMERICANOS.

  •  01/08/2024 12:00 AM - 26/08/2024 11:59 PM
  • Online Event

This six-week course will guide students through a journey of deep examination into our emotional triggers and traumas so that they can be reunited with their inner child and release the absorbed childhood densities back to the Multiverse. Every human is a perfectly imperfect being who has suffered some level of childhood trauma -- usually from the family unit, but also from schools and other societal organizations. The goal of this course is to learn to be the observer, to embrace everything shadow and light in your life, and to let go of the trauma-based beliefs that hold you back . At the completion of this course, you will be able to reunite with your inner child, recognize and revere your authenticity, and to lovingly, and proudly embrace everything you have experienced and everything you are. Namaste. Week 1: Enough is Enough: Knowing A Change Is Needed Week 2: Who Am I, Really? Week 3: Disconnecting to Reconnect Week 4: Taking Action Week 5: Retraining Your Inner Narratives Week 6: Making Time for Your Inner Child For further details, please send your inquiry to theDaddyGuru@outlook.com.

Andrew
Alaska

“Casa Kama, a verdant jewel on the edge of the Costa Rican Rainforest, is a breath of clear air nestled just outside the daily hustle and bustle of Manuel Antonio/Quepos area (5-10 min. by vehicle). A tour de force commercialization of the area by the travel industry often overshadows our innate draw towards meaningful spiritual connections with ourselves and with others. These connections can be found here at Casa Kama. John and Robert are superb hosts providing the tools for self-empowerment professionally and empathetically for guests to grasp and employ at their own pace. Each moment from meet and greet to, to the time of departure is focused on incorporating mindfulness, loving ones-self first, and positive daily living. If you are willing to look for answers INSIDE yourself the tools are provided. Four words: kind, genuine, generous, topnotch! Thank you!❤️❤️❤️❤️”

     

K.
Utah

"I spent five days participating in a one-on-one sacred mush-love tantric retreat during the last week of November 2024. From start to finish the experience was more than i could have anticipated. Right after I booked the retreat months before I was surprised and impressed with the immediate outreach from John. He was, and is, available to answer any of my questions. This includes questions about flights and accommodations to more in-depth questions about the nature of the retreat and the topics that would be covered. Being in a foreign country John also put my mind at ease regarding the accessibility and the security of my travel experience. Once I landed at the airport John was there to pick me up and we immediately began discussing what the experience would look like and what to expect. The day-to-day activities were clearly defined and also allowed time and room for independent thought and integration which I needed. the Tantric instruction and activities were enlightening and fun. Many led to more in depth conversation regarding our inner philosophies and sexuality - which I found to be very relieving and empowering. The accommodations were great, and the food was healthy, plentiful and nutritious. I found John to be very intelligent, insightful, instructive, emotionally supportive, understanding…and loving. I give this retreat, and any retreat facilitated by John, my highest recommendation"

     

John
Houston

"Nothing like I expected but EVERYTHING I needed. Daddy G and Robert are exceptional hosts. The property is beautiful and the lessons learned unforgettable. Do yourself a favor and explore this amazing spiritual experience!"

     

Izzy
Miami

"Attending this yoga retreat was a wonderful experience overall. I had the opportunity to meet new, like-minded individuals and learned a great deal about Tantra. The home we stayed in was extremely comfortable, and I always felt very well taken care of. The staff took great care in ensuring all my needs were met at all times and were incredibly attentive. One standout aspect of the retreat was the "Mush Love" portion. This was a magical experience that is difficult to put into words, and it left a lasting impression on me. In addition, the property was beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed spending time in the garden and being surrounded by nature. Overall, this was a wonderful experience that I will carry with me for my whole life."

     

Louis
Washington DC

“Wonderful yoga /spiritual/tantra teacher and fellow yogis. Delightful sharing, massaging, breathing, chanting, dancing; food, laughter, brotherhood. Loved hiking and swimming at Rainmaker National Park and Playitas Beach near Manuel Antonio National Park. Beautiful sunrises and sunsets. Thanks John and Robert for this uplifting experience.”

     

Rodney
United Kingdom

"We are now back in the UK after a wonderful trip to Costa Rica. We wanted to meet new people, have new experiences and see new sights - our intentions were definitely met and surpassed!. We have been continuing to practice the breathing exercises and the 'Om gam ..' mantra every morning. During the retreat, there was a great connection within the group, the accommodation was very comfortable, the trip to Rainmaker was amazing and I really appreciated (John) and Robert catering to our dietary requirements as well as help ensuring that we were collected from the airport and delivered safely to our hotel. Overall I enjoyed the retreat immensely.”

     

Mark
New Mexico

"Casa Kama has been amazing for me. They provided a true and genuine sacred healing space for people. John and Robert are truly great hosts. I will take what I have learned from the retreat and add it to my practice. I absolutely felt the high vibration in their property and they really keep up with the work around it. I am glad to have chosen this retreat because we did a lot of inner child and shadow work that is typically neglected. I highly recommend Casa Kama to anyone who needs to get away from the city and just be in the moment."

     

Jean
Montréal, Quebec

"I had the extreme pleasure of enjoying a two day retreat at Casa Kama. They were so accommodating with my schedule and so welcoming with my needs. They worked out a sur mesure program that included Yoga, Mantras and Intimacy Healing. I found the combination of all three were so beneficial to me at the stage of my coming out and helped me relax and get grounded. I am not exaggerating when I say the experience changed me for the best, especially the intimacy healing with John. I practice his teaching daily and it helps me cope with the stresses from my life and enjoy the present moment. Finally, the beautiful location was instrumental in making this a impactful retreat. The gardens (so well maintained by Robert), the nearby tropical forest and the beautiful rooms were all amazing. The sweet fealing of a warm tropical breeze on my body after some rain and a full day of activities was incredible. I highly recommend Casa Kama and the therapy of DaddyGuru!"

     

Weekend Retreat Participants, May 2023

"For years I dreamed of being part of this kind of space to get to know myself and expand my spirituality, energy and be part of a circle of men who nurture my masculine energy. This retreat confirmed that the manifestations are fulfilled, one reaches the places and people that he needs in his time to evolve. I am extremely grateful." ​ "The impact very strong, before and after the retreat. Very satisfied. I went without expectations and I left full of a lot of knowledge and desire to learn more. I felt loved and supported by everyone. Everyone from somewhere became part of my pack." ​ "Extremely grateful for the safe space and sharing. (A) Trans-formative self-discovery experience for me."

     
  • Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica
  • Casa Kama, Finca Gloriana, Lote 16 Quepos, Puntarenas, Costa Rica 60601
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